I hope those who know this family very well wouldn't be surprised by my choice of an image to accompany this story.  Those who know this family will feel their heart squeezing with sadness, as they remember the beautiful girl, happily admiring her little ones... in the last months of her devastating battle against cancer.  She will always remain in our memories.  I still have hard time to speak about it...   ... I think this was their last outing together, it all went downhill so quickly and so painfully right afterwards... that we all feel blessed to be able to share those special moments together. Blessed by every moment they enjoyed. Blessed by more amazing things still in store for them as the life goes on despite the pain of the loss, despite the difficult times. It could always be worse. It will always be better. Even in a silly way.

And while I believe that this story was written quite a share of irony... I find it true.  This is how I live.  This is how I try to live.  This is how I want to live!  Life is wonderful and we really should hold on to every positive moment while we can!

Life is Wonderful

Life is quite an unpleasant business, but it is not so very hard to make it wonderful. For which purpose it is not enough that you should win 200,000 roubles in a lottery, or receive the order of the White Eagle, or marry a beautiful woman -- all these blessings are transitory and are liable to become a habit. But to feel continuously happy, even in moments of distress and sorrow, the following is needed:

(a) To be satisfied with your present state; and
(b) To rejoice in the knowledge that things might have been much worse.

When your matches suddenly go off in your pocket, rejoice and offer thanks to heaven that your pocket is not a gunpowder magazine.

When your relations come to pay you a visit during your holiday in the country, don't turn pale, but exclaim triumphantly: "How very lucky it is not the police!"

If you get a splinter in your finger, rejoice that it is not in your eye.

If your wife and sister-in-law practises scales on the piano, don't lose your temper, but be grateful for the joy that you are listening to music, and not to the howling of jackals, or to a cat's concert.

Rejoice that you are not a tram-horse, nor a Koch bacillus, nor a trichina, nor a pig, nor an ass, nor a bear lead by a gipsy, nor a bug.

Rejoice that at the moment you are not a prisoner in the dock; that you are not interviewing your creditors, and that you have not to arrange the question of fees with Turba, the editor.

If you can live in a place not so remote as Siberia, can't you feel pleased at the idea, that by mere chance you might have been deported there?

If you have pain in one tooth, rejoice that it is not all your teeth that are aching.

Rejoice that you can afford not to read the 'Daily Citizen'; that you have not to drive a sewage cart, nor to be married to three women simultaneously.

If you are removed to a police cell, jump for joy that it is not the fiery gehenna that you have been taken to.

If you are flogged with a birch rod, kick your legs in rapture, and exclaim: "How very happy I am that it is not nettles I am being flogged with!"

If your wife has been unfaithful to you, rejoice that she has betrayed merely yourself, and not your country.

by Anton Chekhov
1885